Father Musaala: the Catholic Church blinks … sort of

Musaala & Lwanga face off

Musaala & Lwanga face off

In the stare-down that followed the explosive letter that Father Musaala wrote to the Catholic Church reminding them that priestly celibacy in Uganda is largely a myth, there are signs that the Church has blinked first.

As matters stand today, some observers think that suspending Musaala by Archbishop Cyprian Lwanga was as hasty as it was a mistake. I tend to agree with them. Public opinion in Uganda has been split 70/30 in favor of Musaala if the online and newspaper responses to his letter are anything to go by.

Secondly, the open secret about cardinals, bishops, priests having sex quite freely that Father Musaala exposed cannot really be swept under the carpet with denials or platitudes.  And so it seems that an institution that moves glacially, if at all, has chosen to try to paper over the gaping holes to save the Titanic from going under with an apology and a promise of a “commission.”

According to Uganda’s Monitor newspaper, Archbishop Lwanga has been reported to have offered an apology … of sorts:

“for alleged sexual abuses, including of minors, by some priests. “It’s sad that there has been some misbehaving by some (priests) as alleged,” he said, before announcing an ad hoc (sic) commission had been constituted to inquire into the matter.

Forced out of him by events, the Archbishop’s apology seems as harried as his downplaying of the extent of the scale of sexual misconduct by casually calling it “some misbehaving” borders on the blind. It will thus not be enough even if the commission seems like a step in the right direction.

What will make or break the commission is its terms of reference. If it is independent enough from the Church,  listens to and sensitively deals with potential victims and is tasked with offering genuine apologies as well as arranging for restitution, it will be the right thing to do.

Given the history of the Catholic Church everywhere else sex scandals and abuse have been uncovered such as in America and Europe, the commission might very well be merely a time-wasting,  pontificating, hostile and judgmental white-washing panel which does little other than to try to paint the victims as villains while doing all it can to protect the church.

The conflict of interest inherent in the Church appointing its own investigator notwithstanding, any past and/or present victims of sexual abuse by priests would be well advised to make sure that they understand the commission’s terms of reference before appearing before it.

Make no mistake about it, the Catholic Church in Uganda (and Africa) has been riven for eons with homosexual, heterosexual and pedophile sexual predators who have preyed on men, women and children all over the country. In just the two weeks I have paid attention to those emboldened to tell their stories to the support group that was recently launched (name withheld for security reasons), sordid tales of supposedly celibate religious prelates fondling boys, girls and women, sodomizing boys, raping boys and even married women, forced abortions, siring  and neglect of offspring have come to light.

There is still some fear from many of those who say they have been victims but it will take just one to stand up for the Church to get inundated with claims. What I have seen and heard thus far is the tip of the iceberg.

As Father Musaala averred in this letter, the scale of the sexual scandals in Uganda and across the African continent might never be fully appreciated in our lifetimes. Cardinals, Archbishops, bishops, priests, nuns brothers … the list of  infamy is as long as it is breathtaking. The only surprise is how the lid has been kept on such widespread sexual misconduct for this long.

The Church thus has little recourse but to be ready to listen, apologize and financially compensate victims. Of course nothing can bring back a lost childhood, undo the psychological harm to a rape victim or repair the damage of a neglected child but money goes some way to show genuine contrition.  It will be expensive but, if handled right, it will be the more manageable and least damaging option.

I do not believe the Catholic Church in Uganda will opt for that high road; rarely has any entity with the power and influence this Church enjoys in Uganda ever willingly chosen to see the victims’ side until they were forced to by events.

So, it will likely be years of  litigation, drip, drip revelations as names of sex abusers, past and present, dead and alive come to light. The Church will be embroiled in ruinously expensive legal cases that will embarrass and ruin the reputations of many as we saw in Boston, Massachusetts, Florida, Los Angeles (USA), Ireland and Scotland.

The consequences of the Pandora’s box Father Musaala opened will not be fully appreciated for years.

Right now, though, the ball is in the Catholic Church’s court.

The lunacy and Hypocrisy of Catholic Priest Celibacy 7

Money quote:

Indeed everyone needs to live with his fellow human beings, experience feelings, love and be loved. That is precisely why God put us on this earth for a season; to live as happy a life as possible, while being loved by and loving those around us. Once we are gone, there is no return.

The Catholic Church opted to impose an artificial construct on its priests on the clearly spurious grounds that Christ lived a celibate life. But Christ attended a wedding and even conjured wine from water so that the occasion might be a merry one. And there is no single verse in the Bible where Jesus calls for celibacy; none. So, where on earth does the Catholic Church get it that its ministers must not indulge in the absolutely glorious pleasures of the flesh? Might not this be a case of an overbearing organization being a spoil-sport?

That said, the Catholic Church is a private club of sorts that anyone can opt in or out of. Anyone who opts in, and then goes ahead to sign up for the priestly vocation has to adhere to the Catholic Church’s bizarre requirement for one to inflict pain upon oneself for the benefit of … the Catholic Church.

Women who fall in love with priests end up getting a raw deal as the NPR program shows clearly. But even the priests who try to stay loyal to the vows of celibacy end up tearing themselves up in knots over those self-same vows, and often fall off the straight and narrow, and have affairs with fellow men, women and, tragically, children.

The call for celibacy clearly makes no sense whatever. But it also makes no sense that anyone who has no intention of remaining celibate should join the priesthood. What exactly do they hope to achieve? And how can anyone, male or female, who  vows to be celibate and then indulges in unfettered sexual activity live with his conscience? Why not live a more honest life by walking away from the straight jacket that is Catholic celibacy as some have done?

It would appear, therefore, that asking men and women to abstain from sex is a foolish conceit that the Catholic Church continues to insist on at its own peril. It is unnatural not to have sex if one has the desire for it. It is to relegate grown men and women to sado-masochistic tendencies to ask them to eschew the joys of sexual union with other human beings.

A life without any kind of sex?. Jesus never recommended it. If anyone knows where such a life is recommended in the Bible, please point it out.

In the meantime, it stands to reason that we should all live and … let live.

PS: I first posted this article in 2010. Sadly, for the Catholic Church, it is still totally valid today.

Pope Benedict XVI: India Knight Voices My Very Thoughts 3

India Knight had a great piece, three years ago on why she had let her Catholicism lapse:

Money quote:

Vague because it’s hard to pay lip-service to a faith that you feel hates you; a faith that would rather let you die in childbirth than have an abortion, won’t let you take the contraception necessary to prevent said abortion, hates gay people despite having many homosexual priests; a faith that talks ignorant nonsense about HIV and Aids, that would rather watch people die in Africa than let them use a condom; a faith that is unbelievably slow to say sorry about the fact that some of its members are habitual rapists of children.

I mean, you know, at some point you just give up. Not one of these things is defensible taken individually. Collectively, they are beyond comprehension.

My thoughts exactly. This Pope has been an unmitigated failure, with his reign characterized by cover-ups, even rewarding, of priestly pedophilia, foolish resistance to contraception by a Pope who has never raised a child or had to worry about where his next meal would come from, publicly inveighing against homosexuals while continuing to secretly hire them into the priestly ranks … one could go on.

The only positively radical thing Benedict XVI has done in his entire Papacy is to resign. Time for a Pope ready to live in the 21st Century.

To a gay man living in 201013, the Catholic Church Vatican I see and read about is an abomination.

Related reading:

.1. Pedophilia, celibacy and the priestly vocation
2. Is the notion of a sexually active gay clergy tenable?
3. If Biblical teaching is unquestionable …
4. Stephen Fry on the Catholic Church
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Nigerian gay rights activists fight the old fight

Ifeanyi Kelly Orazulike, executive director of the International Center for Advocacy on Rights to Health

It gets a little difficult to focus on the message when the messenger (Orazulike, above) is so good-looking, but focus on the message we must.

Nigerian rights activists are fighting the same battles seen everywhere else in Africa; for acceptance, dignity …

Anyone who has been following the skirmishes around the dark continent (still) can now write the script blindfolded. So, there is no point in trawling through the arguments again. This money quote from  Thaddeus Ugoh should, in my view, suffice:

“The key factor is religious sentiment, that’s one. Second is ignorance – which goes to education, actually. Thirdly, I could say on the basis of the leaders, political pressure [on] traditions,”

Amen, Amen, Amen.

Now, if only we could eradicate just one of these nemeses; religion, and especially every imported religion, from every African country …

Is that a giant suction sound I hear taking the air out of the sails of the African anti-gay campaigners?

Precisely.

 

Toddler preaches: “Aint no homos gonna make it to heaven”

If you ever doubted that, like racism, homophobia is taught (and learned), here is evidence that shows it is not empty talk to attribute both vices to  parenting and/or upbringing.

Money quote from a near-toddler, a child so young he is barely out of diapers:

“I know the Bible’s right, somebody’s wrong…ain’t no homos gonna make it to heaven.”

Especially note how the adults work themselves into a hysterical frenzy, thereby emboldening the child to repeat himself.

There is of course no way a child that young can know how to interpret the Bible or be able to speak in such an adult manner. The adults who gave this child that standing ovation have questions to answer to their consciences.

Now, for the parents that tutored this child to stand before an audience and speak this way … one has to wonder what their Jesus would say to them.

That, possums, is how racists and homophobes come to be – with the express help from our parents and/or those who bring us up.

Enough on this already.

 

Black civic and religious leaders line up behind Obama 3

If you thought the black churches, with their congregations were going to run away from Obama following his “evolution” on gay marriage, think again. They have listened to the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. and fallen into line.

Money quote:

“as civil rights leaders we cannot fight to gain rights for some and not for all.” Reverend Al Sharpton, president of National Action Network; Julian Bond, chairman emeritus of NAACP; Melanie Campbell, president and CEO of the National Coalition on Black Civic Participation; and the Reverend Dr. Joseph Lowery, president emeritus of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference

That’s almost a verbatim quote of the slain civil rights leader’s clarion call of half a century earlier: “I don’t believe you can stand for freedom for one group of people and deny it to others …”

Amen!

Also check out this touching “mind evolution” by an erstwhile [black] opponent of homosexuality that would rate respectably next to Saul’s conversion on the Road to Damascus.

I am afraid if Mitt Romney expected to see the flood gates open and black voters rush to his camp on account of Barack Obama’s support of gay marriage, he is going to be badly disappointed.

The black vote’s not for turning.

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The Gay Christian Watch oxymoron

Darian Aaron: branded a pornographic, lustful, perverted liar by GCM

The predominantly white Gay Christian  Movement Watch knows exactly what is good for all black people in the world – and they are not afraid to say it.

There I was thinking that Christians follow Jesus (who never said a word about homosexuals or homosexuality) because his overwhelming message was one of love, tolerance, inclusiveness and leaving the final arbitration to God.

Reading this Gay Christian Movement Watch [GCM] article, you might be forgiven for thinking that GCM wrote their own Bible and are now disappointed that Ebony Magazine is not waving it  with them along  their road of cant pontificating.

It is tough stuff and the particularly stomach-churning point is when a white commentator decides that he is qualified to lecture inclusive black churches:

After I became a Christian, I had (and still have) enormous respect for the African-American Christian community for standing strong on traditional Christian morality. The gay community can say its backwards or oppressive or whatever, but I really respect that strong, group-level acceptance of God’s Word.  As a man who grew up in PCUSA, I know what happens when a church becomes a social club by abandoning God’s wisdom. So, even though I’m white, I find this sort of thing very sad. Black churches are being pushed to be “tolerant” of a very serious sin, all in the name of “love” or whatever. (Comments)

Even if the parable of the pig wasn’t insulting enough in of itself, it is difficult to see how anyone could be more condescending. Black churches are being pushed to be tolerant? With what are they being pushed? Bulldozers or gay “fornication?” Should we thus assume that inclusive black churches have no minds of their own, have no ability to interpret the Bible and need lectures from white Christians to see the light?

And if you are not going to be tolerant in the name of love, what on earth are you professing to be Christian for?

Check out Darian Aaron’s blog here.

Catholic priest shows gay porn

Once again, the BBC report confirms what we all know already; that the Catholic Church, that bastion of anti-gay sentiment, is teeming with homosexual priests. Not only are there gay priests galore serving up sanctimonious homilies all over the world, they also understand that, contrary to what their head-in-the-sand octogenarian leaders in Rome would have you believe, the only thing that doesn’t stop for any man is change.

“He was visibly shaken and flustered,” said the parents. “He gave no explanation or apology to the group and bolted out of the room.

So, the priests have changed with the times and, like everyone else, are getting their sexual kicks from porn they keep on their computers and flash drives. Alas, Father Martin McVeigh came a-cropper when the porn on the memory stick he happened to be using popped up instead of the PowerPoint presentation he was supposed to be showing parents and some of their children.

Oops! I must say that had I been in the venerable father’s shoes, I, too, would have bolted like a bat out of hell from the room, and perhaps from the priesthood, too.

Ha, Ha, Ha.

Liberia’s Johnson Sirleaf tries to clear the muddy waters 4

Liberia’s president, Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, has tried to clear up the dust she raised when she appeared to support the ongoing effort in her country’s parliament to criminalize homosexuality.

Read up on it here and see if she succeeds or if this might not be politician double-speak.

Money quote that I have read at least twice without really being sure I understand it:

The President and her Government believe that the current law regarding sexual practices sufficiently addresses the concerns of the majority of Liberians and guarantees respect for traditional values. The reality is
that the status quo in Liberia has been one of tolerance and no one has ever been prosecuted under that law. The President also thinks that with the unprecedented freedom of speech and expression Liberia enjoys
today, our budding democracy will be strong enough to accommodate new ideas and debate both their value and Liberia’s laws with openness, respect and independence.

In plain, simple English, what exactly is Johnson Sirleaf saying? Does she support the parliamentary efforts to pass more laws against homosexuals or does she not?

Andrew Sullivan makes the case for gay priests to come out 1

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As usual, Andrew Sullivan hits the nail on the head with his incontrovertible reasoning. Being gay is not a sin [it is acting on the gay feelings that is] and priests are [supposed to be] celibate.

So, gay priests are the best placed group of people to come out and declare their homosexuality because they would then be the perfect illustration of potential sinfulness (gay sex) that they have determinedly resisted in the name of God.

I like this reasoning even better:

Many [most?] gay and straight priests are not celibate, and a public declaration of
homosexual orientation might open their lives up to greater scrutiny from their bosses. But also, the Vatican has made it clear it does not want gay priests being open about their orientation – because, despite their official language, they really do want to keep homosexuality stigmatized and invisible, because their doctrines are even less persuasive when talented able gay men represent the church itself. .

Well, there we have it. We can now go back and continue with the charade that has been going on for hundreds of years..